Comments on: The Million Dollar Question http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/2010/01/million-dollar-question/ God, Music, Love, Worship Fri, 20 Jan 2012 13:06:00 +0000 hourly 1 By: Allie http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/2010/01/million-dollar-question/#comment-111 Allie Sun, 31 Jan 2010 18:38:01 +0000 http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/?p=193#comment-111 Personally I cannot handle when people walk away from an argument or situation with things unresolved. it leaves my mind to wander, worry, stress, and yearn only to make things right. While I realize it is probably my own personal issue that I need to work on, I tend to personalize the situation when someone walks away...thinking they don't care and that whatever is next on their agenda is more important than unresolved issues as well as my feelings. Like I said, I acknowledge the fact that I need to work on that personalization, as well. While someone else may be able to rest in the midst of unresolved anger/tension/issues, I am not able to rest; therefore, I try to remind myself & remain aware of the fact that others may have a hard time with that as well. When two people have differing opinions and ways of handling issues, I think it's important to acknowledge those difference and agree on a way all situations will be handled from then on out so that each knows what to expect. I believe THAT agreement as well as consistency from that point forward, should be honored, so all situations are handled alike, leaving less room for question, worry, stress, accusations, etc... but, that's just my own two little cents worth.....there is nothing that works the same for everyone. Personally I cannot handle when people walk away from an argument or situation with things unresolved. it leaves my mind to wander, worry, stress, and yearn only to make things right. While I realize it is probably my own personal issue that I need to work on, I tend to personalize the situation when someone walks away…thinking they don't care and that whatever is next on their agenda is more important than unresolved issues as well as my feelings. Like I said, I acknowledge the fact that I need to work on that personalization, as well. While someone else may be able to rest in the midst of unresolved anger/tension/issues, I am not able to rest; therefore, I try to remind myself & remain aware of the fact that others may have a hard time with that as well. When two people have differing opinions and ways of handling issues, I think it's important to acknowledge those difference and agree on a way all situations will be handled from then on out so that each knows what to expect. I believe THAT agreement as well as consistency from that point forward, should be honored, so all situations are handled alike, leaving less room for question, worry, stress, accusations, etc…

but, that's just my own two little cents worth…..there is nothing that works the same for everyone.

]]> By: Allie http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/2010/01/million-dollar-question/#comment-665 Allie Sun, 31 Jan 2010 18:38:00 +0000 http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/?p=193#comment-665 Personally I cannot handle when people walk away from an argument or situation with things unresolved. it leaves my mind to wander, worry, stress, and yearn only to make things right. While I realize it is probably my own personal issue that I need to work on, I tend to personalize the situation when someone walks away...thinking they don't care and that whatever is next on their agenda is more important than unresolved issues as well as my feelings. Like I said, I acknowledge the fact that I need to work on that personalization, as well. While someone else may be able to rest in the midst of unresolved anger/tension/issues, I am not able to rest; therefore, I try to remind myself & remain aware of the fact that others may have a hard time with that as well. When two people have differing opinions and ways of handling issues, I think it's important to acknowledge those difference and agree on a way all situations will be handled from then on out so that each knows what to expect. I believe THAT agreement as well as consistency from that point forward, should be honored, so all situations are handled alike, leaving less room for question, worry, stress, accusations, etc... but, that's just my own two little cents worth.....there is nothing that works the same for everyone. Personally I cannot handle when people walk away from an argument or situation with things unresolved. it leaves my mind to wander, worry, stress, and yearn only to make things right. While I realize it is probably my own personal issue that I need to work on, I tend to personalize the situation when someone walks away…thinking they don't care and that whatever is next on their agenda is more important than unresolved issues as well as my feelings. Like I said, I acknowledge the fact that I need to work on that personalization, as well. While someone else may be able to rest in the midst of unresolved anger/tension/issues, I am not able to rest; therefore, I try to remind myself & remain aware of the fact that others may have a hard time with that as well. When two people have differing opinions and ways of handling issues, I think it's important to acknowledge those difference and agree on a way all situations will be handled from then on out so that each knows what to expect. I believe THAT agreement as well as consistency from that point forward, should be honored, so all situations are handled alike, leaving less room for question, worry, stress, accusations, etc…

but, that's just my own two little cents worth…..there is nothing that works the same for everyone.

]]> By: marsha reeder http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/2010/01/million-dollar-question/#comment-102 marsha reeder Thu, 28 Jan 2010 03:28:16 +0000 http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/?p=193#comment-102 John...what ever she wants... haha! John…what ever she wants… haha!

]]> By: marsha reeder http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/2010/01/million-dollar-question/#comment-664 marsha reeder Thu, 28 Jan 2010 03:28:00 +0000 http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/?p=193#comment-664 John...what ever she wants... haha! John…what ever she wants… haha!

]]> By: stuckinindiana http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/2010/01/million-dollar-question/#comment-89 stuckinindiana Fri, 22 Jan 2010 02:14:53 +0000 http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/?p=193#comment-89 Whenever possible, it's best to NOT let the sun go down on your anger. When you're married that's probably more crucial and, at times easier, since you are THERE together :) But, if you are in a committed relationship, it's important to try to resolve the issue or at least diffuse the tension before the day ends. All that being said, taking time to think things through and pray about things has its benefits. If it's toward the end of the evening & there is still tension about an issue, I recommend holding hands & each taking a turn to pray aloud, asking God to reduce the tension & give guidance in the coming hours & days. Ask Him to show each of you how to learn from the situation & grow in Him. Acknowledge that you wish your thoughts, words, actions, and the relationship to bring Him honor & glory. Whenever possible, it's best to NOT let the sun go down on your anger. When you're married that's probably more crucial and, at times easier, since you are THERE together :) But, if you are in a committed relationship, it's important to try to resolve the issue or at least diffuse the tension before the day ends.

All that being said, taking time to think things through and pray about things has its benefits. If it's toward the end of the evening & there is still tension about an issue, I recommend holding hands & each taking a turn to pray aloud, asking God to reduce the tension & give guidance in the coming hours & days. Ask Him to show each of you how to learn from the situation & grow in Him. Acknowledge that you wish your thoughts, words, actions, and the relationship to bring Him honor & glory.

]]> By: stuckinindiana http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/2010/01/million-dollar-question/#comment-663 stuckinindiana Fri, 22 Jan 2010 02:14:00 +0000 http://www.johntibbsmusic.com/?p=193#comment-663 Whenever possible, it's best to NOT let the sun go down on your anger. When you're married that's probably more crucial and, at times easier, since you are THERE together :) But, if you are in a committed relationship, it's important to try to resolve the issue or at least diffuse the tension before the day ends. All that being said, taking time to think things through and pray about things has its benefits. If it's toward the end of the evening & there is still tension about an issue, I recommend holding hands & each taking a turn to pray aloud, asking God to reduce the tension & give guidance in the coming hours & days. Ask Him to show each of you how to learn from the situation & grow in Him. Acknowledge that you wish your thoughts, words, actions, and the relationship to bring Him honor & glory. Whenever possible, it's best to NOT let the sun go down on your anger. When you're married that's probably more crucial and, at times easier, since you are THERE together :) But, if you are in a committed relationship, it's important to try to resolve the issue or at least diffuse the tension before the day ends.

All that being said, taking time to think things through and pray about things has its benefits. If it's toward the end of the evening & there is still tension about an issue, I recommend holding hands & each taking a turn to pray aloud, asking God to reduce the tension & give guidance in the coming hours & days. Ask Him to show each of you how to learn from the situation & grow in Him. Acknowledge that you wish your thoughts, words, actions, and the relationship to bring Him honor & glory.

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